So you picked him, not over me, I was not there. I had not been there for years. You did not acknowledge my existence. How does that happen after so much time spent together? We were so comfortable. Maybe that was it. We became too comfortable, too familiar with each other. When there was an excuse you used it to escape. At that point I was providing WAY TOO MUCH excitement. You went from not enough to overload in the blink of any eye. You had to escape, I guess I can see that. Why was it with him?